Beautiful Sunday in #madeira

I watched my daughter dance this morning. She was spinning around the kitchen, lost in her own world. And there I was, physically present, but mentally, my mind had caught my attention. One of my "hamster wheels" had caught my attention without me noticing. Some thought, some worry, some phantom urgency pulled me away from the only thing that actually mattered: my child, right in front of me. This is what most of us don't understand about attention. You're not choosing where it goes. Old survival programmes are. They were built by a younger version of you trying to stay safe, and they've been running on autopilot ever since. The result? We reach 50, 60, 80 and realize we spent our lives focused on things that weren't truly valuable to us. Social media has made this worse. It's literally engineered to feed your hamster wheels. Here's what actually works: Watch where your energy goes. Notice which wheel is spinning. Understand that the programme is not you. It's a defense mechanism from a child who no longer needs it. When you see it clearly, something shifts. The grip loosens. And you come back. To the room. To the person in front of you. To your actual life.

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Unfortunately we didn’t do one

Saying the wallet isn’t set up yet

Thank you 🙏

Can’t zap you 🤦

Habari gani guys 🙌

Sylvia’s talk went down very well and there was a full crowd. (I cut them out for privacy) - lots of questions about citadel.garden & a place to be afterwards. Big thanks to & for hosting the event. #madeiramagic #citadels

Sylvia giving talk tonight at cowork Funchal