Wow, these are beautiful! Although I am not an otrovert, I think we can learn a thing or two from them. Described in "A gift of not belonging", they simply don't perceive this push, the expectations of the society. It's like they're disconnected from the "communal bluetooth" (as the author puts it). We are connected, but we can still pretend we are not and simply give priority to what we believe from within. Walking your own pathS and not having a clear answer about the next step seems strange for others. But strange is where the fun in life is.