This is so, so simple y'all. Men need women. Women need men. Anything that is bad for half of humanity is bad for all of humanity. The end. Gender wars are an utter fucking waste of time. An obvious rage bait divide and conquer. Please stop falling for it.

Humans are a social species. A profound terror of not fitting in is built into us as a survival instinct. The more you deny it, the more susceptible you are to it. To manage it, learn to notice your exclusion panic and make conscious choices about it.

yup : /

Do a lot of women report that they enjoy being called “good girl” in bed? Yup. (per my last post I find "good girl" to have domineering, rapey, and pedo vibes) And so the question is, why? I highly recommend a book - Trauma and Recovery By Judith Lewis Herman MD There are lots of things going on here, but a key piece of this puzzle is “repetition compulsion”. This is, the generally unconscious, habit of putting yourself in situations/relationships/dynamics that mirror past abuse. The unconscious goal here is to change the story, to change the ending… it’s seeking a sort of closure. Unfortunately, nearly all woman have a history with some form of sexual assault whether that’s rape, molestation, or just simple groping. If these experiences aren’t processed and dealt with directly, they will generally fester and often popup in the form of repetition compulsion. Lots of other things could be happening too. But I think this one is often the biggest piece of the puzzle.

O I have no idea. I don't watch TV news. I don't understand the candle quote. What is the meaning in this context?

I would guess that this post is contrary to your understanding of the United States and so bothers you. But I will explain. It's commentary on the concept of illegal immigration. There is a common narrative in our politics that says that "illegal" immigrants, or sometimes immigrants at all, don't belong here and are a detriment to the country. This meme points out what things would be like if there never were immigrants here. It points out the hypocrisy of how we discuss these things. Now of course this is a big discussion. When is immigration okay or not. Who gets to decide. How immigrants change a place. When have a people have lived in a place long enough that that is now their home. How immigrants have or should integrate themselves into the existing culture, etc. It's a lot!

My favorite rage bait meme

And when will we learn to stop aligning ourselves with politicians that are just going to shill shitcoins? It’s a wildly shortsighted strategy.

And when will the "libertarian" bros realize that misogyny is just an intimate form of authoritarianism?

How do you think a society can bring about more voluntary community support?

Very unpopular opinion: “good girl” is one of the most disgusting things a man can say to a woman in bed. Of course I’ll explain. First, it has domineering vibes. I guess it makes sense that we would carry our cultural hierarchical zerosum mindset into the bedroom with us. But it just creeps me out that people don’t know how to get off without having to be either submissive or domineering. It’s a bit rapey. Second, bro, why do you want to be in bed with a “girl”? Serious pedo vibes. Gross. Third, the phrase implies that the woman is there to please the man. Patriarchy hangover. The implication is that I don’t have desires and that I’m just there to please him. If that’s what he’s thinking, then go fuck yourself, literally, and goodbye.

I've spent too much time on LinkedIn... I'm now going to refer to myself as a dynamic leader 💅 ...a dynamic leader who will now collaborate with key stakeholders while being an international keynote speaker.

So many cowardly misogynists in my comments lately. If I post anything supporting women not being abused in the world they will show up to try to find some flaw in what I said. If I post anything critical of patriarchy they will find some reason to lay into me and accusing me of being hateful. And when I finally just ask them if they support patriarchy… poof, they disappear. Until the next post of course. Utter fucking cowards. Just come out and say you want the world to be a straight male dominated hierarchy! And yes I am certainly going to tell you to fuck off and block you. But geez dude, it’s just social media. Have the courage of your convictions.