Got it. Any recommendations to speed things up? Used to work much faster for me before? Also, I notice on Amethys half my notes are missing but on other clients I can see much more further back in time

Why does Amethyst connect me to like 500+ relays? Anyway to cut this down to a reasonable number? I filled in what I thought was appropriate in the relays settings and also added "proxy relays" thinking that would fix. But no such luck there - still connecting to crazy amounts of relays and everything works super slow all the time now. #asknostr