Here you are describing the US-American culture to some extent. My generation was particularly targeted by the message that things other than being a wife and mother are more desirable for women. And it permeates my culture enough still that even just saying this could draw ire from people who see that as an attack on women. I believe this shift in a culture was part of a revolution that is still being attempted that is kind of like the "four olds" from China. Do away with the old ways. Women can work. They don't need to have children. And this benefits the state. In the US, it's no longer a choice, really. Without two incomes, life becomes very difficult for a family. Some of the women of my generation gave away the most amazing thing humanity can do to be able to be a slave to the system. And it was called freedom liberation.