They Forgot About You They forgot about you while you were busy trying to win their approval — pleasing them, crying over them, swallowing your pride just to stay close. When the love bombing ends, devaluation begins. That’s when the narcissist decides you’ve made a “mistake” and starts searching for someone “better.” At that very moment — they forget you. Sure, you’re still around, but believe me — narcissists live their lives as if you don’t exist. They’ve already given up on you. They know they don’t want to be with you anymore, and from now on, you simply don’t matter. You never really did. They didn’t lie about who they are — you lied to yourself about who they were. Now it’s your turn to forget them. Break free from the addiction to their “love bomb,” and start building a new life — reconnect with your friends, rediscover yourself, and write a new story. Narcissists only desire people who don’t care about them, because in their twisted minds, that signals higher status — something to conquer. And they devalue the ones who truly love them, because if you love them too much, you must be “beneath” them. If you want to have any kind of relationship with a narcissist, understand this: it’s all a game to them. Their promises — no matter how sincere they sound — mean absolutely nothing. They’re the type to marry you and promise eternal love… and cheat the next day if someone “better” comes along. Narcissists don’t change. They can’t. They only spiral downward — each new interaction reveals that they’re worse than you thought. So if you must deal with them, play their game smartly — but never, ever get emotionally attached. They take pleasure in breaking hearts in ways you can’t even imagine. If you can benefit from them, do so carefully. Otherwise, keep your distance. To them, you’re just a resource, and once they’ve taken what they need, you’ll be discarded and devalued. Remember — these are deeply disturbed individuals, soulless people. Never let your emotions convince you otherwise. Narcissists are masters of deception — pathological liars. When they tell you they’re “going to bed early,” their new partner is already getting ready in the bathroom for a hot night together. When they say they miss you — they lie. When they call you their “one and only” — they lie again. They don’t think about you. They don’t miss you. Think about that coin you lost last year — that’s how much you mean to them. They live in a delusional fantasy world where they believe they’re the center of everything. They think of you the same way they’d think of a lost object — not as a person. They never loved you. They only loved love-bombing you — which is something entirely different. And while they might try to win you back or start a smear campaign against you, don’t fall for it. If they don’t try to come back, it’s only because they’ve already found someone else. Don’t waste your time — they’re a lost cause. Set yourself free. You deserve peace. #narcissisticabuse #healing #selfworth #youarenottheproblem #tiidijanecu