Would you like your romantic partner to treat you the way you treat your finances ? 🤯

I used to live like a project manager of my own existence. Plans, goals, systems, color-coded calendars — as if life was a startup in beta testing. I’d wake up every day trying to optimize my future… until I realized I wasn’t living my present. Somewhere between the spreadsheets and self-help books, I forgot to breathe — to be. And recently something shifted. I stopped chasing “more time” and started craving more life. I don’t want immortality; I want intensity — not in the chaotic way, but in the fully-alive way. So I started saying yes to the unpredictable. Yes to travel. Yes to connection. Yes to that wild six-month deep-dive where we reprogrammed our nervous systems, cried in workshops, danced at midnight, and built businesses that actually mean something. Now I’m exploring what happens when you stop planning your life and start living it. I’ll be sharing that journey here — the unfiltered version, with some philosophy, a few jokes, and a lot of truth. If you’ve ever felt like your Google Calendar is living more than you are… stick around. From my heart to yours, Abel 🤍