The greatest secret to truly unforgettable sex isn’t technique or duration. It’s having someone who desires you with hunger. That raw, almost animal lust, where the person can barely hold themselves back. Everything else like affection, communication, and equality is great, but without that primitive spark, it turns into lukewarm, dull sex. As Nelson Rodrigues used to say: “Desire is the only truth of the human being.” Most people settle for crumbs of desire and pretend it’s enough. That’s why you shouldn’t choose someone just because they’re affectionate and feel little lust. Seek out, too, the one who awakens in you passion, chemistry, and that nearly irresistible urge.

"Entre o passado onde estão nossas lembranças e o futuro onde estão nossas esperanças, há o presente onde estão nossos deveres." — Henri Lacordaire

"Feeling anger is punishing oneself for the failures of others." — Marcus Aurelius