
Users must pick relays. But users don't know "by which criteria" they should pick them. So I scoured >1000 relays and picked about 25 open relays that don't require AUTH or payment and so they work for inbox and outbox for new people. When you use gossip for the first time and set up an account, these are the relays it lists for you to pick from. I am not associated with any of them, they just passed the tests. ALSO, inside gossip's relay panel for any particular relay, you can press "TEST" and it will do some tests and then let you know if the relay works as an inbox or outbox for you.... so that if it doesn't, you'll know to not add it to your relays list. There has been a push among the most prominent nostr developers to make more and more custom kinds of relays. Most of those don't work as inbox/outbox relays so we are in this situation where regular users are both required to choose relays for their kind-10002 relay list, but also that they have no idea how to do it and even if they knew how, don't have the tools or information necessary to make good choices.