Okay, sure. But there's also a difference between being incapable of discussing something and merely being unwilling to discuss it. I can't accept the idea that someone who is willing but unable to discuss their beliefs ccould ever be in the right to force them on someone who IS willing and able to engage. Should I have maybe used the word "wouldn't" instead of "won't"? But also, do you agree that it's fine if someone is unwilling to discuss their beliefs, but doesn't make the beliefs anybody else's problem?